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How Can I Cope When My Child Has Autism?

Coping with the diagnosis of autism is one thing, but then having to cope with it on a day-to-day basis is another.

Autism can be very hard on a marriage, a family, and anyone who is close to that family.

As a parent, you may lose almost all of your personal time because of all the care your child needs.

This can end up making you depressed, cause you to withdraw from the care giving, and even make you or your spouse want a divorce. BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY!

As parents, you need to support one another by making sure to set aside time for yourselves. You need to make time to talk together about the things that both of you have to deal with on a daily basis.

If either of you (or both of you) are having problems coping with all of the stress, you need to recognize your limitations and get professional help.

It is important that you deal with problems as they come up because often small problems can turn into big ones if they’re not dealt with and can lead to resentment or angry outbursts.  These problems can also weaken your marriage and make you more stressed.

Below are eight helpful tips to help you cope with Autism on a daily basis:


This is the number one thing you can and should absolutely do. Getting support from other parents and families that have “been there, done that” is the best way to help you cope with autism.

Not only can you get encouragement and inspiration from other families’ stories, but you can also get practical advice, information on the latest research, and referrals to services and qualified professionals in your community.

By talking with other people who have similar experiences you will see that you are not alone.

There are many organizations that are available to give support including your local autism support groups, and online chat groups and support groups for autism.

You may also want to look into counseling as this can be very helpful as well.

Take One Day At A Time

Being a parent and caregiver of a child with autism is a 24 hour, 7 days a week, 365 days a year job. Because of this, one of the biggest challenges you will face is being very tired.

Your life can also be very challenging and frustrating because the time you have to yourself is limited.

In addition to this, because autism can be unpredictable it can make you feel out of control sometimes.

Taking things one day at a time makes it easier to focus on the things that you can control in the moment and to live each day to the fullest. Be happy about the little victories that your child has every day and the moments you share together.

Don’t Be Afraid To Go Out In Public

Isolating yourself from the world will only make you feel more alone in dealing with autism. You don’t have to be alone in this.

Work Together

Often when we are stressed out, we take out our frustrations on the people that are closest to us. It is important that you as parents and your whole family work as a team when it comes to your child with autism.

Even though it may be hard to find child care, try to take breaks as a couple from the everyday care giving, and also make sure that if you have other children, that you are giving them the attention that they need and deserve.

Plan Ahead

Most parents want to know that when they die, their children will be safe and taken care of. You may choose to have another family member take this role, or find another guardian.

Either way, making a plan ahead of time can help you be less worried about the future and may give you some piece of mind.


Ever heard of the saying “Laughter is the best medicine”? Well, it may be true. In order to keep a healthy perspective on your life, it may help to learn to laugh a little. Parents that are able to laugh and say, “You’ll never guess what our child has done now!” often cope much better with this disorder.

The Cup Is Half Full

Sometimes it may seem that your child is not progressing and that all the help, love, and support you have received is going nowhere. It’s at these times when you may have the “cup is half empty” point of view.

But things may not be as bad as they seem. It’s important to remember that over time, progress is, and will continue to be made.

If you and your family can celebrate even the smallest signs of progress, you will be better able to keep your hope alive for your child’s future.

Get Involved

Many parents find that being involved in their local autism organization, community programs, or school services gives them strength and a sense of purpose.

Being involved with these types of organizations helps parents see themselves as important contributors to the well-being of others as well as their own child.